Rules

Core Principles (Always in Effect)

  • No Requirements – Participation in any activity is always optional.
  • No Expectations – No member should feel pressure to act, engage, or perform in any way.
  • No Exceptions – These principles apply to every guest, at all times, without exception.

General Rules for the Group

  • Respect All Members – Every individual is to be treated with courtesy and professionalism. Harassment, discrimination, or hostile behavior will not be tolerated.
  • Consent Is Non-Negotiable – Always respect personal boundaries. No means no, and consent must be obtained for any interaction, whether online or in person.
  • Confidentiality & Discretion – Member identities, group discussions, and event details must remain private. Sharing any information outside the group is strictly prohibited.
  • Explicit Content Standards – Members are welcome to share their own explicit content, provided it is legal, consensual, and features only adults who have agreed to its distribution. Unsolicited content sent privately is prohibited.
  • Maintain a Positive Environment – This space is intended to be mature, respectful, and drama-free. Hostile debates, negativity, or disruptive behavior may result in removal.
  • Authenticity & Activity – Members must represent themselves truthfully at all times. Misrepresentation, fake profiles, or catfishing are grounds for removal.
    Prolonged inactivity or extended absence from the group may also result in removal to maintain an engaged community.
  • Protect Event Integrity – All event-related discussions, details, and planning must remain within the group. Sharing or forwarding event information is not permitted.
  • No Outside Promotions or Sales – Any external event promotion or outside advertising must be submitted to the administration for approval before posting.
    Absolutely no selling of products, services, or content within the group.
  • Use Professional Courtesy – Treat conversations and interactions with the same respect you would bring to an in-person social event. Maintain maturity at all times.
  • Administrative Authority – The leadership team reserves the right to remove members who violate group rules or disrupt the environment. All admin decisions are final.

Event Rules – Progressive Munch

  • Limited alcohol may be available for guests – If you wish to donate to the bar, bring your alcohol to the bar in the mingle room and a label will be put on with your name on it. If you do not take it at the end of the night it will become the property of the club.
  • Depending on the number of attendees there will be one room for people to mingle and one or more rooms for people to play. Couples and single females may go freely from one room to the next. Single males may go to a play room with the person(s) that invited you, or with another group if asked (do not ask them).
  • Make sure you are prepared with condoms, lubes, etc. (the club will have a limited amount on hand).
  • All club event rules apply (things like no means no, cleanliness matters, people that don’t follow the rules or are assholes will be banned, etc. A complete set of rules will be messaged to all new members). This is your only warning. Once you’re banned you’re banned.

Event Rules – Multi-Day Events

  • Consent is Mandatory, Every Time – Consent must be clear, ongoing, and enthusiastic. Prior interactions do not imply future consent. Boundaries must be respected immediately and without question.
  • Respect & Conduct – All guests are expected to conduct themselves with maturity, professionalism, and respect. Disruptive behavior, aggression, or harassment will result in removal.
  • Cleanliness & Shared Spaces – Maintain a high standard of cleanliness throughout the event:
    • Clean up after yourself immediately
    • Dispose of trash properly
    • Respect shared spaces, furniture, and facilities
    • Leave all areas in equal or better condition than you found them
  • Personal Hygiene – Proper hygiene is required at all times. Guests should shower regularly and present themselves in a manner appropriate for a close social environment.
  • Discretion & Privacy – What happens at the event stays at the event.
    • No photos, videos, or recordings without explicit consent from all involved
    • Do not share attendee identities or event details outside the group
  • Participation & Engagement – Guests are encouraged to participate in activities and socialize, but participation is always voluntary and must align with the core principles.
  • No Pressure Environment – No guest should ever feel pressured, coerced, or obligated into any interaction. Respect both verbal and non-verbal cues at all times.
  • Substance Awareness
    • If alcohol is permitted:
      • Drink responsibly
      • Do not pressure others to drink
      • Behavior must remain respectful and controlled at all times
  • Property & Venue Respect – Respect the venue, accommodations, and surrounding environment:
    • No damage to property
    • Follow all venue-specific rules
    • Be mindful of noise levels and neighboring guests if applicable
  • Conflict Resolution – Any issues or concerns should be brought directly to the event hosts or leadership team. Do not attempt to escalate or handle conflicts independently.
  • Compliance with Hosts – Event hosts and staff are responsible for maintaining a safe and respectful environment. Their guidance must be followed at all times.
  • Removal Policy – Any violation of these rules, or behavior that compromises the safety or integrity of the event, may result in immediate removal without refund.

Final Reminder

All events are designed to be a safe, respectful, and pressure-free environment for all attendees. If you are ever unsure — default to respect, communication, and consent.

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